2 dates, 1 change of hair colour, 1 known change of perspective, weight unknown, some smoking, some drinking. I am thinking about turning my blog into more of a diary, I will be testing different formats of recording information so that over a period of time I can see how I have changed and what I was like. It may well have to become a private blog
Shocking news
Of all the news I had recently the most shocking that one of my best friends who is like a Brother to me is engaged to his girlfriend. I wish them all the best and congratulations but I find it surprising because their relationship does not seem that secure. I say this because she believes that something was going on between him and I and from all accounts, will not let him see me anymore.
Should a couple go on when valued friendships can not be respected by one another?
2 dates
Of my 2 dates one was 25 years old and very local, another was 30 years old and lives in a town that I would quite like to try living in. Both dates have ended in at most friendship, the 25 year old guy while nice and fun to be around, feels much younger than I so far as his experiences of life, his developed political and philosophical views, so much so that I felt like I had 5 years on him when in truth I have nothing close to that.
The 30 year old was more of a punt, while we have much in common and many experiences and views to collectively talk into the long hours of the morning I had a feeling it would not be right. I was actually willing to give him 3 dates because I am aware that the type of guy I usually have chemistry with does not usually share many interests, experiences, intelligence and so forth. I am more than aware that I will have to look beyond instant chemistry (though it would have to develop) to find someone that can keep me interested for the long run.
Funnily enough he asked for friendship after the first date having also picked up the lack of chemistry. I would like him to be a valued friend in the long run.
Japanese
I have finished my first Japanese course and gained a OCR certificate in Japanese Speaking level 1. The next course starts soon. It is great learning Japanese and finally being able to understand bits of Anime and even work out some sentences on my own.
Moving
I have made an offer on a house near where I live, it is much larger and has most of the things I wanted to get from a house. I will finally be able to have a couple of cats!
Weight
I have given up for the past few weeks on monitoring my weight.
Changed Perspective
Winter is wonderful! I love being in a cozy jumper out in the cold, with cool air touching my bare shoulders. I love sitting in a cafe all snug while it is dark and cold outside. I love dating in the winter.
Summary
All in all I am pretty happy right now, I have some things to sort out like what to do about work (at the moment I feel daunted by finding my own work as part of my business to sustain myself) but otherwise I have good friends and that is perhaps one of the most important things.
My heart goes out to anyone not so fortunate right now, may you have better times in the future.